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Originally posted by scot harper
Well Suzz, what went so wrong to make it bearable and unusual[}].
Hilights will do and you can change the names to save the guilty party.
And there is always next time.....Scott. Did the shopping make amends.[?]
This may bore you...
[
] First off.. I was held up for 2 days at this mission (sigh) and got sucked into community service (that's work for me)as a result wasn't able to meet up with Dancing Road contact or Mike. I saw first hand the flaws in the management of the mission (of which I had to return and submit a report). Including recommending that the OM be sent back for de-briefing. He's been there too long and he was sounding quite weird. That was not a pleasant thing to do either.
While I was staying at my sexually hyper active male friend's place every time any of his countless gals dropped by, I'd get the 3rd degree and just so they didn't scratch my eyes out [
] I had to a send clear message that "No, I am not humping your guy and neither do I have any intentions of enticing him away from you." That was a vexation.
Actually it was real life drama and it's funny now but I so wanted to be someplace else. Female jealousy is only good in the movies. Same thing happens in Thailand when i visit male friends there. Sigh.
You know, how can a woman have any peace if she's perpetually worried if she's going to lose a guy? He's not going to change his habits: either deal with it or dump him. Why torture yourself?
I didn't have the nerve travel out of the city all by myself so I went back to the mission and took two of the gals sight seeing. One of them is supposed to attend college so I took her shopping for a Khmer -English Dictionary, English Grammar textbook and a suit. Then I went down to the river side browsed through the art galleries, got drunk on carrot juice (no, it's not possible) and watched the PP lifestyle unravel around me. People-watching is among my favourite hobbies when on holiday. I blog so I obtained much material to work on.
I'm a social worker therefore I found a lot of the stuff I saw rather unsettling. I wondered if Malaysia ever endured similar circumstances... I'm glad I missed that phase entirely.
So, the next time I'm going on holiday I'm skipping PP and contacts entirely and flying straight out to Siem Reap. Or better yet , head back to Laos where I know my way around and friends are a plenty. And am NOT staying with friends who have harems. [B)] He's my friend But there are many moments that I simply don't understand how his mind works.
Am I regretful? Nope, you learn something new everyday. Of course, buying all that kinky underwear compensates, too. [^]